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Writer's pictureR.M. Couse

Supporting Your Child's Transition to School: Tips and Tricks for Parents

Updated: Oct 1


Supporting your child emotionally and practically is key to ensuring they start their school journey with confidence and enthusiasm. (quote from R.M. Couse)
Supporting Your Child's Transition to School: Tips and Tricks for Parents

Hey there, is your little munchkin gearing up for their big leap into the world of school? Congratulations! This is a significant milestone, both for your child and you. As exciting as it is, transitioning to school can also be a bit daunting. But fear not! In this blog post, I'll dish out some handy tips to help support your child during this new adventure. From school visits to mastering lunch containers, we've got you covered!


School Visits: Familiarize, Familiarize, Familiarize!

One of the best ways to ease your child into the idea of school is by making it familiar territory. Schedule a few visits to the school before their official start date. Take a stroll around the campus, peek into classrooms, and show them where the bathrooms and playground are. This way, the school won't seem like an intimidating new place, but rather a friendly and exciting environment.

If possible take pictures of the school, classroom and teacher. Make a little photo album that your child can look at and talk about as they wish. Share what you know about the teacher and what you like about them. How you talk about school will have a big influence on how your child feels about the experience.

child with parent being greeted by teacher on the first day of school.
First day of school (photo from Wix Media)

Foster Independence: Encourage Self-Help Skills

Empowering your child with basic self-help skills will make them feel more capable and ready for school. Teach them simple tasks like dressing themselves, using the bathroom independently, and washing their hands. If possible, when choosing clothing for school, consider how easy it will be for your child to maneuver on their own, ie) choose pants with a stretchy waist rather than zipper and button. Practice packing and unpacking their school bag together, ensuring they know where their essentials are. These skills will not only promote independence but also instill a sense of responsibility.

Lunchtime can be a little tricky for the tiny hands of our little ones. To prevent any lunchtime meltdowns, it's a great idea to practice opening lunch containers together at home. Plan a fun packed lunch with the lunch box and containers they will use at school and let them practice opening and closing it. This simple exercise will boost their confidence and ensure they won't be struggling with their lunch while their tummy grumbles.

Although independence and self-help skills are important, it is also important that your child knows they can ask for help as needed.


Establish a Routine: Consistency is Key

A predictable routine helps children feel secure and confident. Begin establishing a school routine a few weeks before the actual start date. Set regular waking up and bedtime routines to get their body clock adjusted. Practice the morning routine and make sure your child is familiar with what will happen at the end of the school day. Will someone pick them up, where will you meet them? Do they go to an after school program? Does an older sibling walk home with them? Whenever possible, practice the routines. A little planning and preparation ahead of time can go a long way in helping your child feel comfortable with the changes in routine and new experiences.

By the time school starts, your child will be accustomed to the rhythm, making the transition smoother.


Read Books About School

Read books together that focus on starting school. This will help your child understand what to expect and initiate conversations about the school experience.

Here are some children’s books about starting school; (there are many others available, look for one’s that resonate for you and represent your child’s experience best)

  1. "My First Day at School" by Emma Davis

  2. "The Magic School Bus: Hello, School!" by Joanna Cole

  3. "The Kissing Hand" by Audrey Penn

  4. "Wemberly Worried" by Kevin Henkes

  5. "Mouse's First Day of School" by Lauren Thompson

  6. "Franklin Goes to School" by Paulette Bourgeois

  7. "Pete the Cat: Rocking in My School Shoes" by Eric Litwin

  8. "The Pout-Pout Fish Goes to School" by Deborah Diesen

  9. "Maisy Goes to Preschool" by Lucy Cousins

  10. "The Night Before Kindergarten" by Natasha Wing

  11. "Chu's First Day of School" by Neil Gaiman

  12. "Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten" by Joseph Slate

  13. "First Day Jitters" by Julie Danneberg

  14. "My First Day of Kindergarten" by Louise Martin

child laying on the grass reading a book, child's feet, legs and books are showing.
Read Books About School (photo from Wix Media)


Communicate with Teachers: Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

Remember, you and your child's teacher are partners in this exciting journey. Take the initiative to establish open lines of communication with the teacher right from the beginning. Share relevant information about your child's interests, learning style, and any concerns you may have. This way, the teacher will be better equipped to provide individualized support and create a positive learning experience.


Conclusion

Transitioning to school is undoubtedly a major milestone, and as parents, our role is crucial in making it a smooth and enjoyable experience for our little ones. By following these tips – from familiarizing them with the school environment to practicing opening lunch containers – you'll be setting the stage for a successful transition. Remember, supporting your child emotionally and practically is key to ensuring they start their school journey with confidence and enthusiasm. Good luck, and here's to your child's exciting new chapter!


~R.M. Couse~



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